Showing posts with label Confidence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Confidence. Show all posts

Saturday, February 22, 2014

Life in a metaphor

Boys .. 
Boys are tough sporty macho fearless egoistic and blah blah blah ...
Majority of which love driving cars ...
Even me !
Driving car is like the ultimate thing.. 
But have you would have never  thought of such metaphor...

One day while giving 'Gyan' to my best friend. Explaining to the importance of her life. I happen to tell her this " these roads are your life, you are the car and the boyfriends are like music systems ! 
Even if they music system doesn't exist. You can drive, you can live your life and move on" 

We are so much used to the comforts - Ac ,Music systems, that we forget the main thing the main essence of life. We have to reach somewhere! 
Take a step ahead. 
Take ahead the legacy .

After thinking a lot about this, I happen to substitute A journey in a car to that of our life.
As said earlier we are the cars in journey of life.

Petrol happens to be our knowledge. The more the better. Living life without knowledge is worthless.
So fill up the tanks, keep refilling it and just move ahead. Because without the petrol having life is of no use just like living a life without knowledge ! 

The steering wheels are your decisions that you take in life.
It's not necessary that we take a right descision everytime but if we happen to take a wrong one. Don't worry put yourself in the reverse mode take a U turn learn from your bad decsision and take care the next time.

Gear is your confidence. 
When you start your car it will be always on the first gear. 
When you are new you will have less confidence but as you learn things you put your confidence to gear 5 and just run ! 
But don't forget over confidence is not good. You may dash someone.
If you see something, break,lower the gear, lower the speed for a while. 
Even a tiger has to stop and calculate the deer's moves. 
If it doesn't he will have to stay hungry !
So lower your confidence when not needed.
When sure keep driving in the 5th gear. Because it's always fun there! 

The accelator these days is money ...
The more you press it faster you will reach to ur desired destination ! 
It is sad but a part of our life's.

But don't worry if u cannot accelerate much. Petrol is more important. I know you will reach the desired destination a bit late but I am sure you will reach there !! 
Because money can only buy you information.. But knowledge can bring you a lots of money ...
So be there . Stay knowledge hungry and live your life king size. You will reach your destination sooner or later.
Don't turn your car off because the Ac is not working! 
Don't end life when luxuries end.
Or don't stop wen music goes off. 
Because life starts at the end your comfort zones.

Live strong live young! 




Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Even they are Humans.


I came across a very miraculous place, a place where 100’s die and 1000’s take birth. You see all type of Eyes here; Happy ones, sad ones, Old ones, New ones. All of them look up to God with only one feeling- HOPE. A hope that all goes well.
Can you guess what place is this?

Yes, it is a hospital.



Everything in the hospital has to be perfect. Even a slightest mistake can cause huge errors. That is why you see doctors’ & nurses all geared up, as if getting ready for a war- Scrubbed hands, Gloves, Mask, Surgical wear, sanitized equipments. When they are in the ‘O.R’, all they have is just few seconds to take a decision. One small mistake and the patient could die. There is No Margin for Error as we say that in the Management terms. They become Gods for people, because they give us new & healthier lives and we become grateful to them.

But what if that red light goes off and the doctor comes out with that ‘I am Sorry Face’?
World shatters in front of you, because you have just lost a person you loved the most. You see images of that person. Memories flush in. The Happy times, the emotional times. You feel the world has crashed. You start hating the Doctor. The doctor becomes a villain from an anticipated hero, an anticipated God.
He is 
no God No Devil. No Good No EVIL. He is merely a saviour; a saviour tries to save the lives. He always wishes to have a cheerful face and only happy news when the operations are over. Because telling people about their loss is miserable.
Still every time with high hopes, higher determination and 100% confidence they enter their stage. Try and perform better, best and save lives. They help them survive. They become their saviours.
They must have tried their best to save the patient’s life. Tried to bring them back from death because 
No one likes to be unsuccessful. Lose a Battle.

Just don’t hate them!
Because even they are humans ...